WE should learn how to listen to what others are saying... not just verbally but through their body language and emotions...

but we should also know how to talk... it's no use hoarding everything in your heart but not speaking it out...

when we do not see past the talking... and only see the reasoning... we lost out a lot... we never think to ask about their problems they are facing... we never offer a chance to let them talk their opinions because they are afraid we would scold them for not giving what we want them to do...

we always think we are right and that we have the right to punish others... but have we talk to them, listen to their problems... or have we gave proper warning... we never give warning and just imply the punishment... is it fair for the others??

when we do not listen... we are not respecting others... we treat them as shit if i may say....

that is why, we should listen and give a chance to others to speak...

and in my case, proper instructions will do...
~even if you treat me like a piece of rubbish... i would forget about it... but please remember what you told me before you start scolding me for the cert... and involving others in my PRIVATE problems with you... and please respect others and their feelings... you might be more powerful but you are not the most powerful... oh... and you are a freaking scary power-hungry person... so wish you luck in your future...~